Forgiving the fact that they’re people who are working through their past, like you, and will occasionally project their past traumas on you the way you might with them. Forgiving yourself, because growth takes time, and learning to be a pair is more work than just being on your own. Having partners you trust to forgive those moments where you might fall, help you back up and move forward, in my opinion, builds up the trust and love you need for a thriving relationship.
Sometimes you just need to take a step back and realise how far you’ve come instead of how far left you have to go.
You’re going to mess up, and you’re going to make mistakes and you aren’t always going to get it right. You’re human. It happens. It’s okay.
What matters is you pick yourself up again and keep going. You’re doing the best you can. And you can do better. I believe in you and I am so proud of how far you’ve come.